Paraphrasing the title of a collection of short stories written by a person who has the most respected and loved in life, Maria Theresa Barnabei. Feminine plural, yes, or just those women. In a reflection that, starting from the ordinary, never boring, but as you might think, then get to touch and explore themes important in the life of every woman.
now begin by making a reflection on the meaning of certain myths we heard as children, read to us by our mothers and proposed again, inexorably, to our daughters.
"....... and they lived happily ever !"..... Prince Charming, waited and longed for freedom of the girls imprisoned in more than metaphorical prisons, towers and intricate forests, giving them love and happiness. Now, without going into detailed analysis of the sexual metaphors of captivity, I shall focus rather on the "cabbage" by Prince Charming and sull'utopistico "... and lived happily ever after."
But you can be more petty? It does not surprise me that the stramaggioranza fairy tales for children were written by men. After all, nothing better to impose a will someone, you begin to inculcate and small amounts from an early age. And so it happens with stories, and various White, remained chaste in spite of the incredibly ambiguous living with seven dwarfs, not to mention Cinderella's prince struggling with a wife unable to be alone and helped by his father, who organized a sort of mega orgy with the maids in the kingdom, passing through The Sleeping Beauty, which, just when he reaches the age where he could begin to have a good time, falls into a deep sleep only to wake up and find centenary of the expected happiness. In the end, but not least, the stoic choice of Bella de Beauty and the Beast, who is sacrificed to save the entire family by marrying a monster ...
But what is the exact meaning of all these stories? what is the underlying reason that drives writers of centuries past to write some stories of modern times and publishers continue to publish?
Here, the answer in my mind for a while 'is always the same, namely, that living in a sexist society and male, the only way to ensure that women are in the ranks of what "IS SOCIALLY AGREES TO A WOMAN ", but also what you read" THE COMPANY AGREES Men "is fit girls, newborn, just delivered in a nice tile, such as cake, pour the right ingredients wisely (patience, resignation, pending of prince who comes only if you have practiced a life of seclusion, in the tower in the forest with the Seven Dwarfs impotent or gay, or sleeping, the series "GROW THAT GOOD REVIEW", and above that, once arrived, the prince, beautiful and blond, or monster-like-The Beast is the only one that affects you and you live happily ever after dramatically PER) blend with care, but not too much, put in the oven for cooking and wait until the cake is ready.
Obviously not all the donuts come out with a hole. Many are soaring to perfection, but some bumps I get on donuts, or even snort out of shape.
And so it is for us girls. Many are held in shape, are Up girlie perfect wedding, from family, others are a little 'bumps, that is risen well in some places, a little' less in others, and so will be perfect wives and poor housewives, mothers or older but poor in bed and therefore cornificate at the first opportunity, others still, puffing out of shape, are immediately labeled and even unfriendly, relegated to the margins of this society. "Whore," "Easy Girl" (though I would say Happy), "Troy", "whore", the term for which, despite having eaten the ZINGARELLI from cover to cover, I could not find synonyms for men. And no, that is, for boys there WHORES that goes with the whores, but it is not itself, which becomes a man not a dipregiativo, but a reinforcement of the power, there
womanizer, that goes with women, but not objectionable, in fact, these days homophilic, we still find some tomboy preferred to his fellow men, it might seem miraculous. No, not just words that are addressed to a man showing offensive as those listed above and addressed to us girls.
And I will stop here for now, otherwise my thoughts would risk becoming an endless rant.
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